How to handle your Ex at the office

a couple month ago I got married, and I still working at the same office with the guy who used to be my boyfriend - now He is my Ex.

at the beginning we are just find. he is still congratulate my marriage. that is very helping me, that friendly attitude make me feel confort even work with EX at the same office.

but lately, our relationship kind a changes. I noticed that when he got marriage too, and inviting most of a people at work but me. I am surprise, because I thought we are still friend - but its looks like not.
even I am not inviting, I still congratulate Him, because I think may be He had His own reason and I respect it.

luckily we are not at the same team. so the tension not really influence my social relationship either my work.

hi Girl, if you have similar condition with me, just be cool and focus to your carrier. because we are just different person and different story now.


Keep gorgeous and humble garl,

11-19-2015

Pursue your dream or be relistic

I find my self difficult to decide what I am going to do for the future. In fact, now I am 26 years old and Marriage. I have a job. continue my study, but somehow I still confuse what I am gonna be 3 years later, five years later. its about pursue your dream or be realistic.

as a woman in Asia, my people still agree the good achievement for woman in career more like be a doctor, a lecturer or be a an actress. they never mention or too enthusiastic if you mention you are an Engineer or you are a writer, novelist or activist.

But, what is the boundaries between dream and something you could be achieve as goal??

adage, say you create your own opportunities. so i think the boundaries between dream and goal you could be achieve is an effort.

yeah again live not that simple. Every decision we make will not only take the effect to me, family, friends. maybe I think to much. to much than action. I need to straight my mind. Lol !!

soon, i let you know

Woman in Carreer

Served breakfast ?? yes I did.
Cook for dinner ?? yes I did it.

Take care the laundry?? yeah, i can do that at week end..
event lately I give it to laundryman after I realise I don't have leisure time for do hobbies. Well, I need time for pleasure too.

Cleaning house ?? hmmmm... not really, but thank you honey you help to cleaning the bathroom :)).
But, I always try to take care the kitchen looks organize, so we can still find the pepper bottle easy :p.
i really do.

One of the advantage living in the appartement, no need to take care the garden or swimming pool :).

because we don't have the babies yest, Yea, we still do crazy week End if we want it :D.

after all, i think have carrer not bad at all, as long we as woman keep fullfil our dutys.
as long family be no one.
as long every ones happy self is counting.

this desk look intimidating but still love it.

xoxo

yours